VDM tactically added a little Maturity Looks Like: From Fela Kuti’s Grave to Real Growth
After watching VDM’s video, I can honestly say that it demonstrates maturity on a whole new level. This person could easily trend, drag, insult, and go back and forth, but he decided not to. He remembers something more profound, not because he can’t.
He stated that because of the honor of being with Seun Kuti at Fela Kuti’s grave, he would not speak to him. I was struck by that alone.
You will realize that this is not a typical moment if you comprehend what Fela stands for. That isn’t satisfied. That is not clout. That is inspiration, culture, and legacy. Because of internet noise, you don’t simply discard that.
This is where VeryDarkMan made a significant impact. Everyone is able to speak. Anyone can respond. However, some people lack self-control when they are treated disrespectfully.
It is not weakness to choose silence in such a situation. It’s self-control. It involves being aware of your value and upholding your standards. He simply refused to lower himself; he did not deny the disrespect.
When there is a conflict, too many people forget the past. They pretend that nothing occurred. However, he refused to allow anger to change that respectful moment. That is uncommon.
You don’t have to agree with everything he does, but in this case, he was right. Winning debates is not a sign of true maturity. Knowing which ones don’t merit your voice is the key.
